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中外结合,土洋结合,佛洛伊德的理论和释道的修炼

修炼走的是哪一派系,藏传密宗?
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  • 幸福在哪里
    • You may have more options when you go back to China. Toronto is full of broken hearts.
      • 随遇而安吧。中国都被苦难快压到地狱里去了。
        • You are talking about Letting go.
          Agree. Letting go is not something you can achieve by an act of will. It is something that happens to you.
          • We are not passive. Be active, look ways to let things go. +1
    • 收到一些PM。统一回答大家的问题
      看淡,放下,追求自我,你们说得都对。只要让你们感觉好,都是正确的方法和方向。只是请记住以下两点:

      一,只有更快乐,没有最快乐。拿性来说,比如你经历了一个高潮,你认为不可能有更高的快乐了。也许有一天你还可能经历超乎想象的更高的快乐。
      二,更高的快乐不是追求来的,而是不追求快乐得来的。追求只能得到一点点,不追求能得到很多很多。换句话说,你必须忘记我说的第一条,才能体会第二条。

      说到最后,等于什么都没说,LOL。日子该怎么过就怎么过,你自己决定。等到哪一天,回过头来看,可能会想起以前网上有个疯子说得话很对。
      • 网上有个疯子说得
        人的一生要疯狂一次,无论是为一个人,一段情,一段路途或一个梦想。
        • 疯狂是发现本我的一次机会,虽然转瞬即逝,但你总算能够看到。以后要做的事,就是找到方法用平静和智慧的方式,得到疯狂中体验到的快乐。
      • I couldn't feel happy if I am kissing a guy who is another woman's husband
        • when you kiss a man, can you see this man is someone's husband? Married or not, his body is the same. If he loves you, his mind is yours at this moment.
          You are simply losing the beautiful moment on things that does not matter, because you can only live in now. In the future, this man may leave you, but where is future? Future never comes, you only have NOW, always. So when a man kisses you, kiss him back, because this is all you have at now. Enjoy it, worry when he is gone.
          • Nothing wrong with living in the present, but she has her principles too.
            • the problem is her principle becomes rigid and she gives up searching while keeps complaining. Both trying and not trying are good moves, but complaining is not, because complaining only builds frustration in herself as well as others.
              I know her health is wearing down by this frustration.
              • Try appreciation then
                Appreciation is one of the best qualities men look for in women. To start, know everything about ourselves, be good or bad and love them all. Then we will have enough compassion to love other people.
                • Yes, if she starts appreciating a married man, that man may leave his wife to marry her. But true appreciation does not come from greed. You have to accept it as it is with no strings attached.
            • Principles are for self-protection. If she knows that man means no harm, why sticking to the non-applicable principles?
        • Why a man feels happy when kissing a woman who is another man's wife?
    • 看来是佛家空的概念。但是不能苟同的是关于更完美逻辑的说法。逻辑是大脑的产物。真正的当下,是不能依靠大脑的。大脑更多为小我所用。所以逻辑会关注在更多的过去和未来。若被意识逻辑所控制,终是无法达到所谓的平静。少关注一些逻辑和意识,相反要多“观”知道就好。
      • 中外结合,土洋结合,佛洛伊德的理论和释道的修炼
        • 博采众长,为我所用,百无禁忌。过于相信任何一派,都是执念,用自己的头脑,找最适合自己的路。佛祖说:天上地下,唯我独尊。
      • 同意。空是目的,逻辑是方法或道路。当逻辑走到极致,就是无逻辑,即空。空是什么,去看本周要上映的Luc Besson的电影《Lucy》
        佛直指空的终极目的,希望凡人立地顿悟成佛,而凡人在悟空之前,不知空为何物。为了悟空,追求佛的人一生暮鼓晨钟,青灯古卷。也许一生也没悟到空,但先把自己的人生清空了。而道以道与德的逻辑辩证出发,以身体修炼为辅,让凡人走上一条步步风景步步收获的渐进之路,也许一生也没有悟到空和虚,但得到了更健康的身体,更发达的头脑,经历了各种人生的精彩,也不虚此行。虽然最终,这样充满经历的一生用佛道的终极说法来说毫无意义,是空的,但对于修行者来说,是享受其中过程的。

        爱和性,当情到深处,乐到极处,常常带来痛苦,但我们仍然要经历和享受这个过程。我们可以常常暂停脚步,回头望望自己一步步走来的路,这前进和提升的欣喜,是什么也不能取代的。前进的路上,我们希望多些乐,少些苦,这个追求幸福的动力会一步步指引我们向前,直到达到空和永恒的快乐。

        以性修行,性不是目的,而是手段和方法,和逻辑一样。

        修行上升之后的感觉是什么?为什么空等同于永恒的快乐?无法描述给读者,因为即使用比喻,也必须读者头脑中有类似的东西或现象来做参照,没有参照,就不能比喻,不能描述,只能指一个方向,需要修行者自证。
    • Open to everything but attach to NOTHING.
      • Including this statement as well.
    • 幸福在YD里
    • 哥,哪里去了? 写的挺好的,哈哈